“I’ve only see phone sex in the movies, but maybe we should try it out? What do you think?” “I miss you when you aren’t around. I thought about a really fun way to fix that. What do you think about…” If she isn’t into phone sex, then respect that. You can find other ways to connect with her.
“What words really turn you on? Which ones go on our ‘off-limits’ list?” Check in about her best case scenario. For example, you can ask, “Do you want to talk, sext, or get on video?” Both of you should share what you’re okay with. Each of your needs are valid.
“I can’t wait to hear your voice tonight. 😈 I bet I’ll hear some things you’ve never said before. ” “When are you off? I have plans for you, but I can’t say them while you’re at work. ” “Are you going to have any privacy soon? You’ll need it…”
Check out erotica or other forms of adult entertainment for inspiration. Try to write your own little story with her in mind. You can share it over the phone. List what you’ve learned about your girlfriend so far. For example, make a note like, “She’s super into breaking rules. ”
If you’re feeling really bold, send her a voice memo. You can always re-record until it sounds just right. You’ll get a lot of your nerves out the more you practice.
Put away any distractions and make sure your phone’s on silent. Give her your full attention. If she’ll see you on video, put as much effort in your room as you do when she comes over. You can look at any pics she’s sent or fantasize about her to get ready for your call.
First, you can ask something like, “Have you been thinking about the text I sent?” Then, seduce her with some of her favorite words. For example, use a naughty “nickname. " If she gives you a bunch of thrilled responses, you can get even more risque.
You might feel inspired and take more creative risks. You can always just laugh them off. You can also tease each other. The cute back-and-forth might excite you. Humor will also relax you both and prevent any self-consciousness.
Start off with a light suggestion. For example, you can say, “This is so hot! What if we…” Ask for her opinion. For instance, you can say, “Is this a little too tame? I can…” Check if there’s anything you haven’t covered. You can say something like, “Where should we take this now?”
You can tell her something like, “When you said… I just lost my mind. ” Try out a video chat. If you show each other how you touch yourselves, you’ll understand each other’s bodies more. If you both feel comfortable touching yourselves, you’ll find a new way to have fun even if you’re far apart.
You can ask something like, “What would be a fun way to end tonight?” You can also check in with something like, “Did I give you everything you need? I can keep going. ” You can also ask if she just wants more time on the phone. For example, you can say, “I’ll still stay on if you just want to chat. ”
“I adore you. I’ve never had that much fun before. ” ”I’ve never seen that side of you before! I can’t believe those words came out of your mouth!” “That was wild, babe! I totally lost myself. ”
“I love that you always experiment with me. ❤️ You’re such a perfect partner. ” “Thank you for last night. You’re so magical. ✨” “Replaying our last call in my head. 📽️ I adore you. ”
